tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4278381795688922989.post7723837232732659576..comments2023-10-22T12:04:29.225-04:00Comments on Doreen's "Get RADICAL" Blog: Ass U MeDoreenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14977047274291825351noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4278381795688922989.post-90806164111391059762009-02-28T13:46:00.000-05:002009-02-28T13:46:00.000-05:00You are so right! When it comes to my birthday, I ...You are so right! When it comes to my birthday, I learned the hard way not to make any assumptions!!! If I want a party - I'll plan it. If I want to try a new restaurant - I'll make the reservations. If I want a tennis bracelet - I'll drop hints all day long. And while that last one hasn't produced any results yet, I'm still hinting and still hoping!! LOLDoreenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14977047274291825351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4278381795688922989.post-58635252869484916762009-02-26T20:54:00.000-05:002009-02-26T20:54:00.000-05:00I think I have gotten much better with NOT making ...I think I have gotten much better with NOT making assumptions--however, it has been an effort over time. We set ourselves up for disappointments, rejection and hurt feelings when we assume certain things about situations. For example, I could ASSUME that everyone knows that my birthday is coming up on MARCH 8th. However, instead of assuming that I will be showered with gifts and sacrifices on that day (and being let down when that didn't happen), I have been actively campaining and reminding individuals since mid Feb that the big day is almost here! LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com