Wednesday, February 24, 2010

The Changing Face of Leaders

I’m reading Tribes by Seth Godin, a fantastic book about what it means to be a leader today – both in an organization and in your own business. There’s so much good advice and he provides several concepts that really require you to examine how you currently approach your work.

There's no doubt that technology has drastically challenged and changed the status quo, and those who still fight against the new way business, marketing, and careers are developed stand to lose.  The book is filled with stories and insights on how to create the type of organization that thrives in this new global world where information is readily accessible. He shares how people have done it right - and how some have tried and missed the boat.

One of my favorite quotes that is in this book is around using Tribes and the accompany leadership skills to design the life – and the lifestyle – you want. He says, “You don’t have enough time to be unhappy and mediocre. It’s not just pointless, it’s painful. Instead of wondering when your next vacation is, maybe you should set up a life you don’t need to escape from.”

This quote embodies my coaching platform of Get RADICAL – which is to define success for yourself and then become bold and courageous enough to go after it. Coaching is one of the ways I work with individuals to help them deepen the learning about who they are and what they want, and then create an action plan that allows them to pursue their goals.

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Monday, February 22, 2010

Are You Living Fearlessly?

The power of emotional fear cannot be denied, or ignored. And Rhonda Britten’s life mission is to help people understand fear, become friends with fear (yes, friends!) and then kick fears butt!

An Emmy winning life coach from Starting Over and Celebrity Fit Club, Rhonda understand the paralyzing effect fear can have on people. Watching her mother killed at the hands of her father, and then seeing him turn the gun on himself, left 14 year old Rhonda overwhelmed with fear. But she tackled those emotions to design, create and live a powerful and fulfilling life. And she now shares with others how to do the same through her Fearless Living Institute.

In my 10 minute interview with Rhonda, she gets you fired up about what’s possible if you don’t allow fear to make your decisions for you. In this short conversation with Rhonda, I KNOW your life will be impacted.

And to experience the full force of Rhonda, join her, and other incredible speakers at the 2010 Get RADICAL Women’s Conference.


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Thursday, February 18, 2010

Branding. Confidence. Networking. Reflection.

When it comes to success in the boardroom (or in life):

  • What does your personal brand say about you?
  • How would you rate your confidence level?
  • Are you maximizing the power of networking?
  • Do you understand the impact of reflection?
These are the questions Marshawn Evans, author of SKIRTS in the Boardroom, addressed when I interviewed her for her upcoming appearance at the Get RADICAL Women's Conference.

Check out the 10 minute  interview I did with Marshawn as she shares a little about herself, strategies to consider when you are ready to grow your career or your business. And the one thing you should continually do to keep you on the path to success.




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Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Becoming a Champion

At some point in our lives, we've all witnessed it. For some of us, we have experienced it. It is the thrill of being a champion. Being THE winner. Being #1. Hearing the applause of those around you as they celebrate your accomplishment.

It's in those moments that we look back on all the hard work, blood, sweat, and tears it took to get there and admit that it was worth it.

But if you haven't had those moments lately, it could be because you have strayed away from doing the hard work. To me, being a champion is the easy part. It's BECOMING a champion where the road gets tough.

Becoming a champion means that you're in training...and training requires two things: Commitment and Discipline. If you've been lacking in one, or both, of these areas lately, I would venture to guess that you haven't stood in the winner's circle in quite a while.

What championship are you working towards? Is it a college degree? Getting in shape? Eliminating your credit card debt? Starting your own business? Perhaps it's getting a new job, going after a promotion, or saving for a house. Whatever it is you are going for - now is the time to do an honest gut check on your commitment and your discipline.

Ask yourself: What does it really take to get what I want?

Do you need to get up early? Stay up late? Turn off the TV? Cut up the credit cards? Skip dessert? Go to the gym daily? Take on an new project at work? Do more professional networking?

My challenge to you is to choose one area where you're going for the gold. Pick one goal that you've let a lack of commitment and lack of discipline get you off track. Now, decide to recommit yourself and to have daily discipline towards reaching that goal.

Grab a pen and paper right now and write down exactly what you will do to move toward your goal - then read it every day to remind you of what action you must take . By doing so, it won't be long before you'll once again feel the thrill of victory!

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Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Where is the Love?

I've been on the road the past couple of weeks and have a few observations about traveling today.

I don't think anyone would argue the point that travel isn't as fun as it use to be.  Dealing with heightened security, trying to figure out what 3ozs of lotion looks like, and making sure your socks match as you take your shoes off and walk through the detector, isn't the best way to start your business trip or vacation.

Flights choices are dwindling and a non-stop can be golden.  The flights can be oversold and the gate agent can be a little testy to say the least.  And $25 to check 1 bag?  Come on, a family of 4 could pay over $100 each way!

So, it's easy for me to see how frustrations can run high and patience can be fleeting.  But let's remember that we're all in the same boat.  We're all trying to get somewhere and doing our best to maintain a positive attitude. However, some people don't see it that way.  Because of that, I've developed a few pet peeves over the past months that I'd like all of you frequent flyers to consider:
  • When they ask you not to put your coat in the overhead until everyone has had a chance to put their carryon up there.  DON'T PUT YOUR COAT IN THE OVERHEAD!  What if you were the one trying to squeeze your carryon in the bin but couldn't because somone's coat, hat, gloves and scarf are already there.
  • If you are not in the group they are boarding...don't try to board!  You hold up the line and irritate the gate agent.  I don't like to wait either (especially since I know overhead space is at a premium because some inconsiderate passenger has stuffed his coat up there!). But do us all a favor and just wait your turn.
  • Yes, really, step inside your row and let others pass while you try to pull out your DVD player, iPod, book and magazine.
  • And yes, there are some people that move a little slower than others when going through the security.  But be patient.  We were once beginners too!
So as you travel in and out of airports, remember, we're all in the same boat (or cabin!).  Show a little love!

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Doreen Rainey is a Life Coach and Speaker who helps her clients Get RADICAL! For a FREE 30 day membership to the RADICAL Lifestyle Women's Network or to subscribe to her bi-weekly newsletter, visit her website. Join Doreen in the Washington, DC area for the 2010 Get RADICAL Women's Conference featuring Jillian Michaels, Fitness Trainer from The Biggest Loser and Rhonda Britten, Emmy Winner Life Coach from Starting Over and Celebrity Fit Club.