Thursday, March 17, 2011

This Blog Has Moved - www.doreenrainey.com

Please note that this blog has moved to my website - DoreenRainey.com.  Please visit the site to see the latest entries!

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

For Those Who Have Nothing

I was talking with a client a while back who relayed a story of a woman who always had something negative to say about how my client was running her business.  This woman felt the need to critique, complain, give unrequested negative comments, and dole out advice on how she would do things differently.  Finally, having had enough, the recipient of this constant unsolicited feedback finally bit back.  What did she say?

"My crap (she used another word) is better than your nothing."

Now, I'm not sure if that was an original statement, but it was new to me and I immediately understood her message behind it.  What she meant was that if you think what I'm doing doesn't meet your standards, it's still better than your nothing.

It can be so easy for people who are not doing anything to have something to say about what you are doing.

They are:

  • not moving forward in their business
  • not advancing in their career
  • not managing their money well
  • stuffing their face with donuts while telling you to start running instead of walking
Do you know anyone like this:
  • They don't like your logo, but don't have one of their own.
  • They want to tell you how to manage your relationships when they have broken families and unhealed hurts.
  • They want to tell you how to get ahead in life when they haven't made any strides for themselves.
  • They are quick to point out mistakes, missteps, and mishaps not realizing that they don't have any because they aren't doing anything.
To hear these people talk, they want you to believe they have it going on. But when you look a little closer, and check their action, there is no substance. They want to talk as if they have it all together, but they are really those who have nothing.  And for those that are in the trenches everyday - working...doing...taking action - feel free to tell that person, "my ___ is better than your nothing".

Of course, the key to this is knowing which person YOU are in the scenario.


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 RADICAL Success Coach Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash taking place on March 26th in Washington, DC. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Monday, February 28, 2011

Register for RADICAL Conference - Bring a Friend FREE!!

Have I got some RADICAL news for you! 

As our team is putting the final touches on the event, we wanted to do something more, something bigger, something bold…something RADICAL!

And we think we’ve got it!

We’ve heard from so many women telling us that they wish their family member, friend, co-worker, or client could attend the conference with them. They know how much information, resources and networking will be available and hoped there was a way for others to come.  Well, we want to make that wish a reality.  We are excited to announce that every woman who registers for the conference can bring another woman FREE!

Yes, that’s right! When you register for the Get RADICAL Women’s Conference, you will get a General Registration to share with someone else. This conference will be so powerful and transformational that we want as many women as possible to have the opportunity to be a part of it. So, after checking with the hotel for the extra space, we are thrilled to be able to make this offer.




This “Bring-a-Friend” program allows so many more women to hear the stories, strategies, lessons learned, and get the tools and resources that these powerful speakers will be sharing that day.  Our lineup includes Jillian Michaels from The Biggest LoserNiecy Nash from Clean House, Emmy Winner Rhonda Britten, Founder of the Fearless Living InstituteAli Brown, CEO of Ali International, and Deborah Owens, Financial Expert and Author of A Purse of Your Own.  We hope you’re as excited about this as we are. 

To take advantage of this offer, simply register. You'll then be able to give us the name of the person who will be attending with you. You can click here to get more information and to register. If you don't know who you want to bring - no worries. You can register now and tell us later.

We hope to see you in a few short weeks!

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Today, I Issued a Refund

I just logged off from my banking system after issuing a refund to a client.  I couldn't be happier!

Now, before you jump to conclusions about the client, let me just say that I LOVE this client. Not only have we been friends for a while, but when she became a client, I've been honored to help her start and grow her new business.

The reason why I issued a refund lies completely with me.

A couple of months ago, we were talking about a service she needed that not only could I do for her, but at the time, didn't mind doing.  It wasn't part of my core business (coaching, speaking, consulting), and it wasn't what got my juices flowing, or a service that I would want to expand to other clients.  It was just something I thought would be fun to work on, add value to my client, and help her move forward in this particular area of her business.

But after a couple of months of working on this special project, I began to feel stressed about it.  Because it wasn't a part of my core expertise, everything took longer than anticipated.  Because it wasn't what got my juices flowing - the sweet spot of my business - I would hesitate to work on it or put it off until all of my other projects were done.

The results?

I became frustrated, stressed, and angry - with myself. What seemed like a good idea at the time had turned into a nightmare.  And last night, I decided to face the truth.  I didn't have the time, energy, or the real expertise to continue with the project.

Has that ever happened to you? You started something with good intentions, but somehow, it got way off track?  You soon realized:

  • I really don't have time for this.
  • This isn't fitting in with my overall goals.
  • This isn't serving me or my client.
  • This isn't turning out like I thought it would.
  • I don't have the skills, tools, or expertise to really do it justice.
  • I just need to let go and move on.

Is this happening to you right now?  Do you have a client, an organization, a project, a committee...anything...that you've now realized is not where you need to be spending your time, giving your effort, or exerting your energy? If yes, you should consider taking a deep breath and letting them know. Once you do, you will feel an incredible sense of relief and freedom.

I made that call last night.

She completely understood - and while we won't be working on THAT project together, she's still a coaching client and moving forward, doing incredible things in her business.

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 RADICAL Success Coach Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash taking place on March 26th in Washington, DC. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Saturday, February 19, 2011

It's Your Time...Are You Ready?

Have you ever had that feeling that something big is about to happen? That a major change for you is brewing in the air? Have you told someone "This is my time"?  Yet, you still struggle a little to put the all the pieces together? If so, you don't want to miss the 3rd Annual Get RADICAL Women's Conference.  Whether it's your career, health, finances, business or just getting it together all the way around, you'll get clarity, strategies, and tools to help you create the successes you're working on.

Hundreds of women have already registered for the upcoming Get RADICAL Women's Conference and I have had the privilege of talking with several of them.  Some said they just "knew" they had to be here because this is exactly what they needed in their lives right now.  Others have said they had to move appointments, figure out child care, and make arrangements at work. A few said this is the first time they will be traveling alone, and while they are a little nervous, they were coming anyway. For some, the decision to come was considered RADICAL for them, but they set aside their fear because they are ready for massive changes in their life.
That's what this conference is all about! It will be powerfultransformational, and FUN!
Whether your focus is on building or changing careers, starting or growing a business, understanding how to better manage your finances, creating more balance, managing your roles (wife, mother, daughter, friend, sister, caretaker) or infusing more fun in your life, this is THE event to attend. Filled with practical, informative content, opportunities to network with other successful women, and the chance to design tangible action steps to move your closer to your life's goals, you will leave empowered, motivated, inspired AND with the tools and resources to get to the next level.
Here are what some of our attendees have said:
"The speakers are strong business women sharing their successes and failures, to help other women succeed and grow.I was given a number of tools and directions to go in to address problems I am having in my business and personal life. I truly left there with a lighter heart than I came in with and a sense of direction I have not had in a while."
"All the speakers were SO dynamic and vibrant. Their energy literally lit up the room and together all created an all-star team willing to share their skills and knowledge to help us all get better."
"I originally attended to see Jillian more than anything but I got SO MUCH from the other speakers. When I got home, I couldn't stop telling my husband all the amazing "ah-ha moments" I had. It was a wonderful empowering, eye opening experience!"
"Loved the conference. I left with a renewed feeling that I can do anything! I can be bold. I can be courageous and I'm going to get radical! Thank you so very much for a great day." 


Taking place on March 26th at the Renaissance Washington Hotel in Washington, DC, the Get RADICAL Women's Conference is designed to give you the information, strategies and tools you need to take charge of your professional and personal life.  Our expert speakers, including Jillian Michaels from The Biggest Loser, and Niecy Nash, Award Winning Actress, and Ali Brown, Award Winning Entrepreneur and self made millionaire, will be sharing their stories and advice on how you can get what you want in your career, finances, business, health and life balance.  You can learn more about each speaker's topic on the Program page on the web site.
Registration Options:
General Registration: A full day of interactive workshops with all our speakers - Jillian Michaels, Niecy Nash, Rhonda Britten, Ali Brown, Deborah Owens and Doreen Rainey.
VIP Registration with Ali Brown: Attend an exclusive luncheon with Ali Brown, CEO and Founder of Ali International. She was named by Forbes.com as the #1 Entrepreneur to follow on Twitter, as well as being named one of the fastest growing companies by Inc. Magazine. If you're a business owner, or have aspirations to be, you don't want to miss this chance to "pick her brain" about how she grew her business 333% during the recession.
VIP Registration with Rhonda Britten: How about a private breakfast with Emmy Winning Rhonda Britten, Founder of the Fearless Living Institute? As the life coach for the television show Starting Over and Celebrity Fit Club, Rhonda is armed with the knowledge and steps you need to overcome whatever is holding you back from going for your goals.  She'll be sharing her insights on overcoming fear, getting unstuck and answering your specific questions.
Tickets for one, or both, of these events are included in our VIP, Platinum and Diamond registration packages.  These packages also include special seating, exclusive check-in area and other goodies. Please note that these tickets are extremely limited.  Our VIP programs sell out well before the conference takes place, so to make sure you've got a spot, simply click here to register today!
It's your time...are you ready?


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 RADICAL Success Coach Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash taking place on March 26th in Washington, DC. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Standing at the Craps Table

I was talking with a dear friend the other day who shared her slight agitation with a couple of people she had recently come across who were experiencing great success in their careers - both monetary and in being satisfied and fulfilled.  

She reasoned she had gotten her education, held professional jobs, and was now a leader in her organization - having the title, staff and salary to go along with it.  Yet, how was it that these other people seemed to be happier, more fulfilled and richer than her? And, adding to that agitation, was the fact that these people were 10+ years younger.

I immediately thought of a conversation I had with Kim Snider over a year ago.  A financial expert, and one of the speakers at last year's Get RADICAL Women's Conference. What she said forever changed my perspective on what it means to live in a capitalistic society.  

Kim explained that the capitalistic system is built to reward people for taking risk.  A capitalistic financial system doesn't reward equally - and sometimes it doesn't reward at all.  The people my friend was referring to had taken great risks. And while they had some ups and downs, they were experiencing a tremendous payoff for those risks.

Now, that may not seem fair to some people, but that doesn't make it less true.  And that analogy can also be true beyond financial success - it can be true in business, relationships, your career, finding peace and creating balance in your life.  To gain any of those things to the extent that you want them, it will require risk on your part. That leads to the obvious question:

What risk are you willing to take to get what you want?

When I posed this question to my friend, she paused. Risk - taking a gamble - letting it all ride. Those were concepts that made her very uncomfortable.  She related it to gambling - and not only had she never been one to roll the dice, pull on the one armed bandit, or double down on blackjack, she wouldn't even step foot in the casino. That's when I explained that risk should be calculated.

Standing at the craps table and rolling the dice puts you at risk to lose big or win big - but in life, you want to put yourself in a position where the risk is calculated.  A loss may be possible, but the payoff could change the trajectory of your life.

Risk, just like doing something RADICAL, is relative. It has a different definition for each person.  Risk for someone could be finally changing their hairstyle, ordering something they've never eaten at a restaurant they've never tried, outlining why they deserve a raise and then go and negotiate for it, or joining a professional or social group filled with people they want to get to know.

Risk could also be separating yourself from some people in your life that don’t align with your beliefs, values or goals and focusing on developing more nourishing relationships. It could be tapping into your savings to start a business - or stopping the financial drain by closing a business.  

Whatever area in your life you are feeling a little restless with, a little dissatisfied with, a little disappointed with - think about the risk you may have to take to change it. Then decide if you want to stand at the table and roll the dice.


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 RADICAL Success Coach Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash taking place on March 26th in Washington, DC. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Monday, January 31, 2011

The Inspiration From Others

As I wrapped up my time at The Biggest Loser Resort, I took a little time to reflect on all the amazing people I met during my time there.  It's so interesting to hear other people's story - who they are, what they have been through, what they have accomplished, and what some of their goals are. 

There was the woman who had beat breast cancer and was there to get back into working out. In kickboxing class, she saw the punching bag as cancer and beat the crap out of it - just like she had done with her own illness.

There was the 72 year old grandmother of 35 who hiked and attended all the classes. She shared how she started a private school that had become one of the top schools in her area.  Now, she was planning to open a summer camp that would combine theatre and agriculture. She proves every day that it's never too late.

There was the fitness instructor who had conquered her own health challenges by losing 95 pounds 3 years ago and was now helping others realize their full potential by encouraging them to stay focused on their goals.

There was the southern sweetheart with the charming accent and kind heart who encouraged everyone in every class. Working hard, pushing herself, and bringing everyone along with her.

There was young woman who always felt awkward and unaccepted and left feeling more confident and assured that she could do and be anything she wanted.

And there were countless others who climbed mountains for the first time, ran on a treadmill for the first time, picked up a weight for the first time, got in a swimming pool not caring how they "thought" they looked in a swimsuit, and those who just amazed themselves everyday with their strength, their courage and their ability to do more than they ever thought possible.

I felt honored to be around so many wonderful people and gleen from their drive, motivation and inspiration. It was an unforgettable experience.

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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Is It REALLY Hard?

I've been spending the past several weeks on the west coast hanging out at The Biggest Loser Resort getting a jumpstart on making my health and fitness a priority again (one of the reasons why I love my business is that I can do it anywhere!!).

One of the trainers at the resort, Sam Poueu, looked very familiar to me the first time I saw him.  Why? Because he was from Season 9 of The Biggest Loser. And as he had us sweating,  huffing and puffing yesterday, he talked about staying focused, not giving up and doing what most people won't do to get what we want.

He went on to say that one question he often gets continues to catch him off guard. What's the question?

"Was it hard to be on the show and lose 142 pounds?"

I immediately understood what he was saying.  As a life coach, I am no longer surprised by people's belief that things should be easy. That they shouldn't have to sacrifice, be uncomfortable, make difficult choices, be disciplined, and...do I dare say it...work hard.

I don't know if it's the media, savvy marketing, or our instant gratification syndrome that makes many of us believe that things shouldn't be hard. That somehow, people who get what they want don't have to do as much work as we would have to do to get that same thing.

Here are two definitions I came across for the word "hard":
  1. Involving a great deal of effort, energy, or persistence.
  2. Performing or carrying on work with great effort, energy, or persistence.
Name one successful person who hasn't given a great deal of effort to their cause.  Name one successful person that didn't need to maintain persistence to get the desired results.  Name one successful person that didn't have to push through setbacks, challenges and barriers to get the goals they set.  And I would venture to guess that every new level of success brings on new efforts and persistence for the next goal.

If you don't believe me, ask them. Schedule a meeting with your CEO and ask how hard it was to get there.  Have a conversation with an elite athlete and ask them if the training was hard.  Talk to an academy award winning actress and ask them has their journey been hard at times. Have coffee with a successful entrepreneur and ask if starting their business was a piece of cake.  Read the biography of someone you admire and decide if their life was a cakewalk.

If you want something - you must expend the energy. You must give 100% effort. And you must maintain your persistence.  Because guess what? It's hard.

Oh...and Sam's answer to that question: a definite YES!

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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Friday, January 21, 2011

Most People Won't

I love talking to people and hearing about their goals, what they want to accomplish, the life they want to create for themselves, and the legacy they want to leave behind.  I have conversations all the time with people I meet at networking events, business groups, and at social gatherings.  And when they find out I'm a personal development coach, they really come strong. 

I get to hear about the business they are starting, the book they are writing, the non-profit they plan to launch, the new job they are going to get, the degree they want to pursue, and the vacations they want to take.  I can hear their excitement, feel their energy, hear the faith and belief in their words, and get drawn in by their conviction to success.  But inside, I know the truth.

Most people won't come close.

It's sad...but true. Most people will continue to live in that stage of having a goal, sharing a goal and even convincing themselves that SOMEDAY they will get that goal.

You know the people I'm talking about. Every time you talk to them, they are talking about the same goal and when you ask how much progress they've made since the last conversation with them....the excuses come:

  • Well, you know, my job keeps me so busy.
  • Well, you know, with the economy, it's been hard.
  • Well, you know, I just haven't found the time.
  • Well, you know, I was planning on doing X, but Y got in the way.
  • Well, you know, the person that was suppose to help me didn't come through.
The part that really amazes me is that most people actually believe that their excuses are legitimate.  They believe the lie they tell themselves because it makes them feel better and provides the excuse they need to accommodate their lack of progress.  Giving explanations and excuses make them feel better, because it prevents them from facing the truth. What truth should they face?

They are scared.
They are afraid.
They fear failure.
They fear success.
They don't know where to start.
They don't know who to ask for help.
They doubt their talent.
They question their gift.
They fear the unknown.
They wonder what people will think.

Now, I know that you are not that type of person. I know that you are actively moving towards your goals and making real progress. I know that you are not still talking about the same things you talked about last year, and the year before that, and the year before that.

But just in case you know someone who may be stuck, help them see that it's time to get moving.  That it's time to do something different. Get the information they need, the support they need, the accountability they need, the belief they need and the focus they need to get it done...so they can begin to finally have a new conversation with you.

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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Listen to the Preview Call: Get RADICAL Women's Conference

Did you miss the preview call last night? No problem! You can listen to the recording by clicking here

I shared all the details about the upcoming Get RADICAL Women's Conference - a conference designed to help women take bold and courageous action towards their goals.

I talked about the speakers, the content, and how this event can help you advance in your career, finances, business, health and wellness, and life balance. I also gave information about the VIP Programs, RADICAL Woman Award, and the other events during that weekend.

To listen to the 30 minute call, simply click here.



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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

I Can't Believe You Did That

In 2004, I left my full time job to pursue my professional goals - coaching and speaking to inspire, motivate, and educate people to live their RADICAL life. I simply wanted to help people define success for themselves and then have the guts to go after it.

Fast forward to 2011.

This past weekend I got a call from an executive I worked with at that company. While we saw it each periodically over the years, we didn't really keep in touch. So I was surprised when I got a call from him.  After catching up with what was happening in each other's lives, he asked me about the Get RADICAL Women's Conference and said that his wife and daughter planned to attend.

Then, he said something that really touched me. He said that he remembers when I left the company and talked about pursuing my dreams. There were others he'd known over the years who talked about taking a different direction, going after a goal, or pursuing one of their passions - but they never quite made the leap.

I was one of the few people he'd seen actually do it.  He reminded me that so many people talk about what they are going to do. But so few people actually do it. He said he couldn't believe I did it and that he was proud of me.

What about you? Are you the one alwasys talking? Talking about...
Writing a book?
Going back to school?
Traveling to a foreign country?
Volunteering to help others?
Starting a non-profit?
Recording an album?
Going for a promotion?
Starting a business?

Don't be one of those that wish they did. Be the one that's glad they did.

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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Monday, January 10, 2011

Preview Call - Get RADICAL Women's Conference


Get RADICAL Women's Conference Preview Call

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

7:00pm - 7:30pm EST (4:00pm PST)

Join RADICAL Success Coach Doreen Rainey on this FREE preview call where she'll share all the details about the upcoming Get RADICAL Women's Conference - a conference designed to help women take bold and courageous action towards their goals.

By joining us on this call, you'll get information about the speakers, the content, and how this event can help you advance in your career, finances, business, health and wellness, and life balance. You'll also find out about the VIP Programs, RADICAL Woman Award, and the other events during that weekend.

Simply register to get the call-in information.








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Friday, January 7, 2011

Get Back on the Horse

The New Year has a habit of getting us to begin doing some things that we have let fall by the wayside.  Since January 1, maybe you've started working out again. Maybe you've started living by a budget. Maybe you've started working on that book again. Maybe you've started getting a full night's sleep again.

Getting "back on the horse" can be challenging. You may find yourself a little rusty at whatever you've started doing again.

Such was the case with a woman I talked with today.

I'm spending time in Malibu at The Biggest Loser Resort and one of the coaches told us that she normally bikes to work, however, with the rains over the past month or so, she stopped. And even though the weather cleared up, she never quite made it back on her bike.

But with the New Year, she finally decided to get back in the groove. So yesterday she decided to ride her bike to work.  Having not biked in a while, she realized on the way home that one of the hills she used to breeze up seemed too steep this time so she got off.  As she pushed her bike up the hill, she saw another bike rider coming down. 

Slowing down, the biker asked her if everything was okay. A little embarassed, she barely looked up, replied that all was well and that she was just a little out of shape.  His reply? "Well, you don't get in bike riding shape by walking beside it. You get in shape by riding it."

Annoyed, she fully turned, ready to reply with a sarcastic remark when the biker took off his shades. That's when it hit her. The biker giving her advice was Lance Armstrong.

While she was temporarily speechless, he held out his hand and introduced himself. Finally able to find her voice, she explained again that it had been a while since she rode. Then, he gave her some advice on positioning her seat and then offered to do the hill with her. She happily accepted and he rode with her all the way home.

This story highlights a couple of lessons:

Lesson #1: Don't put off any longer what you should be doing.  Get back on that horse.

Lesson #2: Since it's been a while, allow yourself some time to get back in the groove.

Lesson #3: While it may be difficult at first, don't get frustrated and definitely don't stop.

Lesson #4: It's in the doing that amazing things can happen that will inspire and motivate you beyond words - like taking an afternoon bike ride with  Lance Armstrong - winner of the Tour de France a record seven consecutive times

What horse do you need to get back on?
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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Thursday, January 6, 2011

The Green Grass

The grass is always greener on the other side.

It can be so easy to start peeking over in other people's yard and begin comparing what we see with what we have. Only 6 days into the new year and comparisons can be something that could get us off track for days, weeks, months or even years.

We can look at how someone that has grown their business, developed an amazing relationship with their spouse, landed an incredible job, or seemingly doesn't have money issues and start to wonder "what's wrong with me". 

The problem with comparison is that we can waste a whole lot of time, energy, and effort either feeling bad about where we are or working to do what we think they have done to get what they have got.

If there are people you admire, there's nothing wrong with seeking out information from them - getting some advcie to see if they have any strategies, tips, tools that you can use to improve your situation. However, if your comparisons lead you to get off track with your own goals, feel bad about who you are or what you've accomplished, you need to immediately stop focusing on them and start focusing on you.

As we work on designing the life we truly want to live, it's important that we learn from those with green grass, but stay true to our authenic goals and our own authentic self.

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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Never Easy, Always Worth It

We've all heard the saying...nothing worth having is easy. But I don't think we all believe it. 

Why do I think this? Because people tell me all the time when I ask about the progress towards their goals: "It's too hard".

It's January 5th and some people have already decided that the goals they set for this new year are too hard to achieve.  They've started to do the work and have now opted to either adjust their goal to something smaller or give up all together.

Does any of this sound familiar?

It's too hard to not buy something even though I'm supposed to be getting out of debt.
It's too hard to find time to work on my book even though I want to be a published author.
It's too hard to let go of the anger so I can begin to heal my relationship with my spouse.
It's too hard to stop spending endless hours on the internet and my smartphone when my children are begging for attention.
It's too hard to finish my education so I can get that promotion I said I wanted.
It's too hard to make it to the gym so I can reach my fitness goals.
It's too hard to stick to the training schedule so I can run the 5k, 10k, half marathon, or marathon.
It's too hard to organize my closet and keep it clean so I can save time and be neat.
It's too hard to buy groceries and cook for my children (and me) so they (and me) can eat healthier.
It's too hard to .... do you have anything that could finish this sentence?

However, when you talk to people who said it was hard but they did it anyway...they will tell you that it was always worth it.

Remind yourself of this every day...the work it takes to get your goal is always worth it!

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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Make Your Life an Adventure

We can all get bogged down with work, taking care of family, paying bills, and the other forces of everyday life. As we end the 4th day of the New Year, it's important to remember that life should also be an adventure.

Check out his quote:

A man practices the art of adventure when he breaks the chain of routine and renews his life through reading new books, traveling to new places, making new friends, taking up new hobbies and adopting new viewpoints. ~ Wilfred Peterson

What routine do you need to break? Is it time for you to shake things up? It's so easy for our days to turn into weeks, and the weeks into months, and months into years doing the same thing day after day.  It has to be a conscious choice to be adventurous. But how can you do that?

They key to keeping adventure in your life is realizing that adventure is relative. For some, it could mean taking a few months to travel around the world, for others, it could mean trying a new food the next time they eat out.  What would it be for you?

The quote above shows that adding adventure to your life can be simple, yet highly impactful.  Picking back up a hobby you've let fall away, making regular appointments to meet up with your friends, or even changing that hairstyle you've had for the past 5 or 10 years could all qualify as an adventure. 

Adding small (or big) adventures to your life gives you energy, excitement and a feeling of being alive - not just living.  Now is the time to take a look at how you can infuse more adventure into your life.

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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. She is the founder of the Get RADICAL Women's Conference with Jillian Michaels and Niecy Nash. For more information about the 2011 conference, visit the website. Registration is now open!

Monday, January 3, 2011

How's Your Endurance?

How's your new year going so far? It's day three and I'm sure that some people have already abandoned some resolutions they made just a few short days ago. That thought led me to the word for today: Endurance.

Your success is directly tied to your ability to endure.  When you feel like giving up, abandoning your plan, or letting your success slip away, you have a decision to make.  Do you throw in the towel or do you endure? Endurance is defined: the ability or strength to continue or last, despite fatigue, stress, or other adverse conditions.

Is this what you exhibit when your goals come up against a challenge?  If you are working to get out of debt, do you endure passing on those new shoes, saying no to a night out with friends, and giving up your daily latte? Looking to improve your fitness level? Are you willing to endure working out regularly, cutting back on calories and getting enough rest?

What about other people's opinions? When you are ready to do something great, there will be some that won't agree with you, who may even try to hold you back. Will you be able to endure - stand strong - perhaps even distance yourself from those people?

Yep - it's day 3 of the new year and some people have already abandoned their resolutions.  Are you one of them?
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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. To subscribe to her FREE bi-weekly newsletter and get 7 RADICAL Tips that you can use today, visit her website.

Sunday, January 2, 2011

The Choice is Yours

It's day 2 of 2011 and the word for the day is CHOICE!

I've heard so many people talk about what they want to accomplish this year. They want changes in their career, finances, health or life balance - but the reality is - if you want something different you have to make different choices. My question for you is what choice will you make today that will have a significant impact on your goals for the coming year?

I decided to make a choice around my health and fitness. Last year was my best year ever in my business, however, I got out of balance and let my fitness goals take a back seat.

Has that ever happened to you - you got so focused on one area of your life that you begin to fall short in others? If so, you know you have to make choices around your priorities and what you are willing to do to get things back on track.

That's why I decided to start off my new year with a real commitment to focusing on my business and my health. The great news about what I do is that my business is mobile. So I've decided to travel across the country. For the next four weeks, I'll be making my wellness a priority at The Biggest Loser Resort at Fitness Ridge in Malibu, CA.

Many of you know I spent 4 weeks at their location in Utah a couple of years ago. It was such an incredible experience that gave me the tools I needed to put my health first. And that's what I'm doing in 2011.  It's exciting and I'm looking forward to what these 4 weeks will bring.

That brings me back to you - and your choices.  What will you choose today that will have a positive impact on your success?
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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. To subscribe to her FREE bi-weekly newsletter and get 7 RADICAL Tips that you can use today, visit her website.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Happy New Year!

Happy 2011!

I hope you're as excited about the new year as I am! Whether you are making resolutions or not, there's always a feeling of change in the air when January 1st comes along. As we plan for the coming months, I wanted to take a moment and share my RADICAL Word of the Day Video. I shot this while spending time with my family today - as you'll hear in the background, everyong was having a good time!

May your new year be filled with happiness, health, prosperity and joy!



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As the RADICAL Success Coach, Doreen Rainey helps her clients take charge of their professional and personal life. To subscribe to her FREE bi-weekly newsletter and get 7 RADICAL Tips that you can use today, visit her website.